No matter what you are doing, you can get far ahead of the competition and prosper if you just lock in by taking on tedious tasks, working long hours, and managing heavy workloads. But, the vast majority of people are reluctant to go all in and put all the eggs in one basket: they refuse to take their studies or jobs seriously. Do you know why they don't want to lock in and devote themselves to one thing at a time? It is because most people do not have faith in their own capabilities, as well as God's plans. Deep down in their hearts, people worry that if they dedicate themselves to pursuing a single goal or dream, they will still fail and disappoint themselves, which will finally prove how messed up they are. Consciously or subconsciously, they fear that even if they give 100% of their energy and attention to a single target, they would still miss it and screw things up. So, instead of trying to the best of their abilities, they just rationalize their fucked up habits, their fucked up choices, and their fucked up lives. Instead of working genuinely hard, they just make excuses and blame external factors. They say that if they had the right support, the right condition, the right mentor, or the right system, they would be able to accomplish their goals and make their dreams come true. So, only by lazing around and doing a bunch of degenerate, stupid things can they convince themselves that they would actually be admirable or successful if they had the right path to stick to. They don't want to admit that they already have the right path to follow, the right support to capitalize on, the right condition to thrive in, and the right mentors to look up to.
Simply put, people don't want to work hard because they think that all of their efforts would be futile and it would reveal how unlucky, incompetent, and futureless they are. Laziness and procrastination are the only things that give them hope that if they tried hard in the right environment, they would be able to pull off great feats. Don't fall into this psychological trap. You can be almost anyone and achieve almost anything if you just commit yourself and try your best. The support of your family, the balance of your bank account, and the color of your skin are not as important as the effort you put in, the discipline you build, and the mindset you carry forward.
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