Please share for me Bro Kwaku. I've been married for three years and my husband is heavily cheating on me. He leaves home to sleep with another woman for days before returning. I even saw messages on his phone where he rented for another lady and told her he would be spending time with her. I also saw that he was dating someone at his work place. He is really cheating and anytime I bring it up, he would rather turn it into an argument. He would complain that I went through his phone and sometimes even use that as an excuse to leave home for days.
Instead of always arguing with him about it, I decided to just calm down and do my duties well as a wife. I even went ahead to beg him to tell me if there was something I was doing wrong that made him cheat and he said nothing, except he didn't want me checking his phone or always arguing when I see him doing something suspicious and I agreed.
But after that conversation, he got worse so I involved his father and uncle (who doubles as his Reverend / pastor).
His father and uncle called a meeting. I was thinking they were going to talk to him about how he was cheating and treating me, but they made the whole thing about me.
They said, every man cheats and if I want to have peace of mind in my marriage, I should just remain calm and accept my husband for who he is. His uncle even supported the cheating by telling me that even the men in the Bible had multiple women.
At the end of the meeting, they said I was nagging by going through my husband's and worrying him about it. They even made me say sorry to my husband cuz they said he was just being a man. They didn't even say a single thing to him. His uncle rather preached to me. He said I should be a virtuous woman in my home cuz virtuous women embrace their home and work to improve it rather than worry about a cheating husband.
Bra Kwaku, this people have made my husband an animal now. Now he sits right beside me and talk to other women. He even told me he would marry two more women but will make them stay elsewhere. He's openly cheating now cuz his family supports him. He barely has time for me. We have sezz once in a while and he doesn't care.
I'm not going to ask for a divorce cuz we have a baby that's not even up to two years yet. But I want to start cheating too.
What men can do, women can do better. I'm going all out too. I'm not asking for many men, I want someone who would desire me too. Someone I can also fulfill my fantasies with and be happy. I want to also spend on someone cuz that's what he does. Just one good man.
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