The taller a building, the deeper the foundation.
A strong foundation is what holds the tall building and makes it "grounded", not the material it's made of.
In becoming a mentally strong ALPHA, most of the work (foundation) will depend on YOU. You need to be in charge of your own thoughts and mind, not outside circumstances.
If you intend to be a father, your choice of a mother is more important than the children you have.
In fact, a good mother for your children is far better than a beautiful wife for yourself.
Choose a mother before having children. She will reduce your workload. If you choose a woman or a wife first, you may have to make her a mother while raising your kids, because not every woman or wife is a mother.
How do you find a good mother?
You don't need to ask AI or read any book on parenting. You don't even need to ask me.
You only have to answer one question honestly:
"Will I be proud to have a daughter like this woman?"
If the answer is "No", you have a beautiful woman but not a mother. Those two are not the same.
If you have a mother and even if you two never marry or she doesn't become your wife, she will still be a mother to your child.
But if you go looking for a wife and end up having a child along the way, you'll be in trouble. It's worse if you have a daughter. She'll make your children resent you so much and still demand the most from you.
There are women you should keep as girlfriends ONLY, those you should marry, and those you should have children with.
The fact that she's a good wife doesn't necessarily make her a good mother. But a good mother is usually a good wife, too, in most cases.
You're lucky if you have all three in one person. But if you can't have such, seek a mother first before she possibly becomes one.
