"Can you explain the texting game as if I'm a dummy?"
Me:
Texting is foreplay.
Just like foreplay has its place but cannot replace the actual fucking,
texting has its place but cannot replace the actual physical meeting.
I get so many DMs from guys telling me they’re talking to this girl for months.
But they still haven’t met her, or that she lives 1000 miles away.
It SHOCKS me to know that guys actually do that.
Texting is a huge time waste, no matter how you put it.
To text a girl who you don’t even have a shot at meeting? That’s wasting time. the greatest sin.
Just how the goal of foreplay is to make her wet and anticipate the fucking,
The goal of texting is to make her curious and display mystery.
It’s to Tease, Challenge and Disqualify and tie it all with the end goal of setting up a date.
Let’s say she says “Are you hitting on me?”
You simply reply back “Easy tiger, I haven’t even met you in person. What if you’re a creep?”
Her- “blah blah i’m not”
You reply- “Well, only one way to find out. Tuesday or Wednesday ?”
Bam.
You flirted with her, disqualified, and challenged her to go on a date with you.
Once the date is set, let’s say it’s 3-4 days away.
Should you text her? How often?
You shouldn’t try to have conversations on text, NEVER.
Before the date you should build up ANTICIPATION of excitement for the date.
Future Pace.
Tell her all the exciting things you both with do, paint vivid imagery.
“Saw this meme, reminded me of how clumsy you will behave on Wednesday”
“Is this how you look when you spill your drink?”
It’s almost always memes, short banter, maybe Facetime back and forth before the meet.
You absolutely cannot give her all of you.
She NEEDS to meet you because she has had a TASTE of you but cannot for the life of her figure out who you are.
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