"I’m a 33-year-old woman and married for 8 years and I've known my husband for 16 years, we have a lovely 3-year-old son,
He is easily an almost perfect husband, we lead a very good life financially and romantically, up to until our child was born.
All of a sudden one day, he stopped sleeping with me and holding my hand or hugging me, and 4 months after that happen he admitted to me he fell in love with someone else, and he then packed up his bags and left to stay with his mistress,
We are still in contact because of our boy, and he still settles the household expenses and my bills which easily amount to what people earn in a year
I do believe it’s also partially my fault because I put almost all my attention on my boy and neglected his emotional needs,
Now I’m still in shock, I spent half my life with him, and this happen, what should I do, I don’t believe I can get him back.
I’m crying every night for the last 6 months."
翻译：“我今年 33 岁，结婚 8 年，和丈夫认识 16 年了，我们有一个 3 岁可爱的小男孩。
他曾近乎是一个完美的丈夫，在孩子出生前，无论是在经济上还是情感上，我们都过着非常美好的生活。
突然有一天，他不再和我同床，也不再牵我的手或拥抱我。四个月后，他向我坦白自己爱上了别人，随后便收拾行李搬去和情人同居了。
因为孩子，我们依然保持着联系，而且他依然承担着家里的开销和我的账单——这些费用动辄相当于普通人一年的收入。
我也认为自己有一定责任，因为我把几乎所有的精力都放在了孩子身上，忽略了他在情感上的需求。
现在的我依然处于震惊之中，我把半生的时光都交交给了他，却落得这个下场。我不知道该怎么办，也不觉得自己还能把他挽回。
过去这 6 个月里，我每天晚上都在哭泣。”
