There are 2 main reasons why high achieving, professionally successful men are frustrated with dating
1. You want a unicorn girlfriend or wife
2. But you aren’t running anywhere close to the right volume to make this happen in any reasonable time frame
You are especially open to this as a high achiever who has an intense career because you have very limited time to meet women
You have to grasp that if you want to find your unicorn ride or die girl
It is going to require you to seriously load the top of your funnel
As in anywhere from 6-12 new phone numbers per week type of loading….
Otherwise you’ll just be hoping and praying that the Gods decide to drop this perfect woman in your lap
This is something as a high achieving man, I’d imagine you don’t want….
You only accept the best of the best ….
You’re kicking ass in your career from all the hard, focused, strategic effort you’ve put into it
Finding your dream girl requires a similar high level STRATEGY to put yourself in the best position to meet her
You will be tempted to go to matchmaking for this
On paper it sounds great ….
“I’ll just skip the hassles of dating by paying heaps of money to meet my dream girl. Efficency 😎”
Well as someone who has been mastering dating and male female romantic/sexual dynamics for over a decade
I can confidently tell you that chemistry is ANYTHING but checklists on a requirement sheet (which is what matchmaking is based on of course)
The amount of times people have ended up dating those who were NOTHING like their described type ….
It’s a tale as old as time….
So matchmaking while tempting, is NOT the way
Instead here’s what to do in order to max the top of your funnel in the most efficient way possible
1. Get a professional photoshoot that maximizes style and presentation so you can show your best self online - this will print matches on the dating apps
2. Cold approach any hot girl you see in your day to day life
This is the formula that all of my busy professional clients use to maximize the top of their funnel so they can QUICKLY meet the women of their dreams
Even if you do nothing else as far as any other game strategies or dating skills go , at LEAST you can likely stumble into some success
But if you want the absolute best of the best dream dating life
You’ll also want to learn the following (But not limited to)
-Master efficient texting
-Learn how to talk to women and connect with them
-Understand how to flirt, arouse, turn them on
-Know how to handle objections and concerns
-Tell the two in #5 apart
-Know how to screen so you find girls who like you for YOU and are not in agenda mercenary mode
-Understand and be clear on your dating goals and intentions so you can lead the interactions properly
and so on…
Even if you’re a guy who’s rich and successful and open to gold diggers
Lead with wealth = women more likely to use you
Lead with game and maxed presentation = women like you for you
And trust me, it’s a LOT better this way….
This is the full way to put your dating life progression on absolute thermonuclear rocket fuel
And yields the results of a dating life that only most men would ever even DREAM of
It’s also extremely time efficient
Which of course is something you value as a busy, successful man
Time efficiency + top tier results = problem solved for life
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