THE IRON CIRCLE: post #4838 — TG.ME

The #1 sin in game is ‘qualifying ourself’ That is any action we secretly did to change another person’s opinion of us or our worldview. Ironically, also trying to convince people we don’t care what others think of us. Its what women test for but most guys fail before she tests This muscle gets weaker the more we do it. We can’t go from flashing cash on IG, arguing on twitter, getting ripped only to impress girls….then expect to pass her tests in a club. We can’t live the life of a seller and then suddenly and congruently act like we’re the buyer The opposite of qualifying ourselves is expression. In qualifying, we try to ‘steer’ their reaction to how we want them to react. In expression, we don’t ‘steer’ it that is we give freedom to react ‘bad’. Send it and let the chips fall This creates trust and makes them receptive When I talk about projection, I mean a state of expression where you are pre-emptively doing things that ‘dare’ people to judge you and react badly…. not as a tactic but because the happy feeling in you is so strong. This creates massive trust in the whole club and rockstar status