DATING DYNAMICS: post #54 — TG.ME

What Do Women Really Think About? We asked a few women and here are some of the things they think about that you might find helpful to better understand the woman you want in your life. WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first time you meet The first time she sees you, she’s checking you out. Thinking “Is he hot? Can I date him?” Then she sees you looking at her…. “He’s checking me out!” You looked away… “I didn’t like you anyway” You smiled…” Wow, he smiled at me! I wonder how he is as a boyfriend. I want to find out” WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: Your first date You are late … “ How dare is he! He’s 5 minutes late! What does he think of me? How disrespectful. Oh well, its okay. I can do better.” You’re on time… “YES! I’m so excited. You’re here. I can’t wait for the rest of the night. You’re cute. Can’t wait to kiss you!” WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: During the date You accidentally looked at the waitress… “Nice, he’s one of those guys. He’s checking her out. How rude! My evening is ruined. He’s a dick!” You’re staring at her all night long… ”He really likes me. I’m feeling nervous. He’s making me feel like I’m the only woman in the room. He must like me a lot! I’m having the time of my life. He could be The One. “ WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first kiss “This is it. He’s going to kiss me. He better be good. Nice, he’s taking it slow.” You pulled away and say goodnight… “Wow. He’s such a gentleman. I want to kiss him more.” You keep on kissing her because you’re starved for romance…”This is nice. Uh oh, he’s coming on too strong. I don’t like this. He’s only after one thing from me. I will stop this now and never see him again. He’s a freak.” The point is that she’s thinking a variety of things, all the time – and even at the SAME time. Women cannot control the thoughts that often intrude on them, which gives rise to all kinds of weird moody comments, and even some strangely hot/cold behavior that is really confusing. The point is simply to worry less about WHAT she’s thinking and simply create the most stable, safe situation for her to feel what she’s going to feel. As the saying goes, if you don’t like her mood now, just wait 2 minutes for it to change again… And if you’d like to know how to create that kind of safe zone where a woman will drop her guard and let herself get sexual with you, go here: https://gumroad.com/a/714556371/jlnmu

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March 20, 2025 1.1K