The secret trick I've tried, tested and found to boost your self-confidence is constantly calling yourself out. Before the world notices your shortcomings, you've already fixed them. Before anyone calls you out for being fake, you're already a living proof of ownership and competence. But before you call out any mistakes, start with forgiveness. Forgive yourself for the things you messed up knowingly and unknowingly. Then forgive anyone in your life who you thought did you wrong. Understand your expectations were unchecked and you know better now. You can't change what doesn't feel right if you're not ready to accept that you were uninformed and now you know better. Then forgive yourself for anything that happened in your life. This way you're in a position to change anything in your life. Forgive, accept and now change your ways. Start with the simple promises you give to yourself. Leave alone anyone else. If you said you'd wake up early, do it. If you said you'd stick to your diet, do it. If you said you'll write 500 words every day, do it. If you said you'll commit 1000 days to learn a skill, do it. If you said you'll call someone back, do it. Self-confidence is a product of all good and positive small habits compounding. The more good habits you stack, the more you feel good about yourself. In building a new life for yourself, you can't afford to overlook the power of staying longer in the game. Once you know what to do then the struggle is staying committed no matter what happens. Everything takes different periods of time to materialise, so will the habits you start to build or quit. Give yourself the time. Also it's necessary to understand there will be results, but not the results you expect — so lower your expectations. Self-confidence is like an expensive signature cologne. Everyone knows you're in the room because of the distinctive scent they can only associate with you. Same case with cowardice or timidity. People can feel it—Unless they're fake like you. If someone is genuine, they'll tell when you're fake. To boost your confidence and increase the chances of your success in anything you want to achieve, start paying more attention to your words. Say what you mean, mean what you say and do what you say. From experience, What one way have you found to boost confidence?
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